Understanding Separation Anxiety in Children with Autism
Separation anxiety is a universal experience, but it can be especially challenging for children with autism spectrum disorder (ASD). These children may struggle to cope with the physical symptoms of their anxiety, making it harder for them to separate from attachment figures.
Separation anxiety disorder is characterized by excessive concern or worry when separated from attachment figures. Research shows that nearly two-thirds of children with ASD will experience anxiety disorders, with about 14 percent also dealing with separation anxiety.
Why Children with Autism Struggle with Separation Anxiety
Children with autism often struggle with separation anxiety due to the changes presented by the separation. Attachment figures provide comfort, and being separated can lead to extreme distress triggered by various factors.
Tips for Managing Autism and Separation Anxiety
- Practice separation in social settings.
- Leave without making a fuss to reduce anxiety.
- Stick to routines to provide comfort and reduce anxiety.
- Engage in therapy or games to address separation anxiety.
It’s essential for parents and caregivers to arm themselves with patience and understanding when helping children with autism cope with separation anxiety. By implementing these strategies and seeking professional help when necessary, children with autism can learn to manage their anxiety effectively.
FAQs
- Q: What does anxiety in autism spectrum disorders look like?
- A: Anxiety in children with ASD can manifest as sleep problems, resistance to change, and a need for routine.
- Q: What triggers meltdowns in children with autism?
- A: Sensory overload is a common trigger for meltdowns in children with ASD.
- Q: What are common fears for people with autism?
- A: Children with autism often fear sensory situations such as loud sounds and bright lights.
- Q: What is often mistaken for autism?
- A: Generalized anxiety disorder and other anxiety-related conditions are sometimes mistaken for autism symptoms.
By understanding the unique challenges faced by children with autism and separation anxiety, parents and caregivers can provide the necessary support and guidance to help them overcome their fears and thrive.

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